Friday, August 10, 2007

Bookgroup Without the Book...or the Group

I was aware last night of an ongoing gathering taking place in a dreamland up north that I am no longer a part of. I felt a pang. Bookgroup each month with this extraordinary group of women was always a highlight and knowing that I was no longer a part of it (although...you never know. I could see me making a surprise guest appearance someday) left me feeling a bit melancholy.

Kelly called me to see if I wanted to eat Sushi with her and her son but I had already started dinner and when Jay walked in the door from work, and I was on the phone, there was popcorn all over the carpet (horrible, horrible idea for a snack) and all three boys were doing their best impersonation of the boy version of Veruca Salt (I want it now!), it wasn't exactly the best time to say, "See ya!" But after dinner, after dishes, after the boys transformed back into sane beings...I asked Jay if he minded if I went to visit Kelly one last time before she left town. He gave me his full blessing and I called and arranged to meet Kelly at Chili's so we could get the desserts that we had to cancel after our sushi-canceled-bad-tex-mex dinner.

Kelly filled the void. We stayed until we were too parched to talk anymore (our waitress stopped refilling our water glasses about an hour earlier). I feel so lucky that I have made this great friendship in the last few months. It was a great night. So comfortable, so funny. I left with a smile on my face. It was perfect.

Thanks Kelly This song is for you!


free music

14 comments:

Amie said...

Happy Birthday Lucy!

Your night out with Kelly sounds so fun. I'm glad you found a way to make it work. What's up with your waitress not refilling your water!?

donna said...

What a fun girl's night!

Kelly said...

THANK YOU! Who needs book group when you have chocolate cake?

Yea for Pat Benatar!

P.S. Sometimes I even wear make-up and comb my hair.

jenny said...

What a treat to hook up more than one occasion. I am glad you guys found one another internet smeinternet. She sounds and reminds me so much of you, hence why you get along so well.

Can you count that as an early birthday treat? Happy Birthday dear friend!

Jill said...

I'm glad you and Kelly got together and that that great outing took the edge off missing your Washington book group. I'm sure it sucked to miss that, but how fabulous to make this new friend!

RoRo2 said...

Wow is Chili's dessert that good???? just kidding, glad you were able to get together with Kelly one more time, great friends are wonderful.

Have a wonderful Birthday!

[alisar] said...

I too longed for our bookgroup. Those blissful days of yesteryear...
Glad you had a girls night of a different kind. Maybe I should do that too!

Kari said...

I'm so glad you two have started such a great real life friendship!!

Happy Birthday Lucy!!!! :)

Carolyn said...

Happy Birthday Lucy!!!

We missed you so much at book group. Maybe you could call and we could put you on speaker phone -"Charlie's Angels" style. :-)

Hope your talk goes well tomorrow. I'm reading a book called "Esther" (from a non-LDS author). That is one amazing biblical woman!

andrea said...

You know you were sorely missed at book group. I'm glad you had a fun girls night out anyway.

Happy Birthday to you. Can't wait ot hear all about it. I have such great memories of your birthday last year. I wish we could have been there to celebrate with you.

good luck wth your talk tomorrow.

Lara said...

Happy Birthday Lucy (I still have 3 minutes of Spokane time to say that). Glad you got a night out with a friend.

{krista} said...

Happy belated Birthday Lucy!!! Bookclub without the book sounds like my kind of bookclub! LOL

Bridget said...

Don't you love it when you just click with someone. How nice that you and Kelly have that.

Hope you had a great birthday!

Kristin said...

Happy Late Birthday Lucy!! You were sorely missed at book club...I'm counting on your "guest appearances". ;)